night out

Another year come and gone!! My husband and I have been married 39 years. We celebrated with him bringing me roses and a card(not mushy this year) and went out to eat. We debated on where to go, but once in the car he changed his mind about where to go. NOT a big surprise!! This has been something he does with great regularity!! Surprisingly enough, he chose for us to go to Joseph-Beth Bookseller's cafe. Which is a waaay yuppie place in their atmosphere and food. Ended up with OK food and an inept waiter. SIGH My dessert was excellent. If they would only do everything as well as they do their tiramisu life would be very good!! To set off the surprise...he was willing to look around shopping in the bookstore. I quickly loaded my arms with books and used a portion of my carefully horded gift certificates. I still have a bit left for more funness later on!! LOL

Turkey Swap

Ahhhh, the power of the blog!! Snagged me some turkey just from whining on here!! LOL Thanks to Jen for coming to my rescue. I now have turkey for both eating and playing out my inner barbarian...wonder what Scott would do if I attacked him with a turkey leg??? Nahhh those thoughts are better left alone...back quickly away!!

Anyway...thanks Jen for bringing me turkey. I'm sorry that my cake options were so slim. Do you all like pies?? I can make you a pie...?? OR...cookies?? Just tell me what flavors and I'll come through for you!!

Thanksgiving has come and gone....

Well, another Thanksgiving day came and went with visits with family, this year his side of the family. All his whole brothers were there and his whole sister...he has two halves left...grin...one a brother from his mother's side, the other a sister from his father's side. They're much older, but he's worked hard with establishing a relationship with both of them over the years. They just weren't able to make it there for the celebration, too. His brother's three boys were all there for the first time in a long time for us to see them. No one was drunk, no one strung out on drugs...not nairy one fight for us to survive. It was surprisingly pleasant, with everyone on their best behaviour.

I did miss being with my side of the family. My two nieces with new babies were going to be at their father's house. One of the young babies I've never even seen before. I wasn't pleased, but resigned.
I called there today and only got a busy signal. I'll have to remember to try again.

I did get to talk with my own children for the holiday. I think it's really important to touch base on these days, even if it's just for a short conversation, as it conveys and reinforces the love and, anyway..makes me feel soothed. This year even my new daughter in law called me specially to wish me a Happy Thanksgiving. When I'd been talking with my son she wasn't around, and then I passed the phone to his father and then it was hung up...she didn't find out later that we were who he was talking to...and, got aggravated that he didn't let her have a turn to say "hi". She can be a sweetie!! LOL Unfortunately, we didn't get to talk with Penny and her crew...I thought about them as we passed their exit...was wondering why we didn't set up something ahead of time to be with them instead of with old people like us!! LOL

One bad thing...we didn't bring home enough leftovers. Not even one piece of turkey for a sandwich. Did get some of the roast beef...but, while good, it just doesn't conjure up that same feeling of contentment!! I do have some cake in there that my friend Lisa made for us. She does a really good job with both cakes and cookies! I am the pie maker, but it's been too many years since I did them regularly enough to stay in practice. Good crust takes practice!!

OH well..nothing is stopping me from baking or inviting more people over...well...except for being lazy and not wanting to mess with my plans for decluttering more...

Guess that's all for tonight...I can hear one of those cakes calling to me....Donnnnaaa!! yep..recognise my own name!! LOL

tonight at church

Our church held it's annual Thanksgiving dinner tonight. I was really pleased with the number of visitors and relatives of our church members that attended. Everyone seemed to be having a good time, but I'm thinking we've about maxed out our space for these types of things!! Maybe we should be setting up tables upstairs in the big open space, too??

The food was super good. Turkey, dressings, mashed potatoes, gravy, green beans, corn, broccoli casseroles, deviled eggs, all sorts of salads, cranberries in all forms, and desserts of every kind....except chocolate. This is the first time I can remember where there was not even one chocolate dessert served!!! It really wasn't missed, though!!

Guess I'll have to be paying more attention to making sure I get all my water in, and also checking on my calories and portions I'm choosing. This could be a baaaaad week foodwise!! LOL I'm looking forward to it!! LOL

whining

I'm just a bit blue around the edges, while I'm bubbling with excitement over the same thing!! Just a different angle of looking at it..right?

See..it's like this...My baby boy sent me the link to his graduation ceremony information this coming spring. Finally!! is what one side of me says....YoooHooo! says another side of me....WHIMPER...says another side...he's getting soooooo OollllDDD!!! Good Grief!! How did it happen over night??? Well...I guess with looking back his graduation from college has been a long overdue process, but I'm proud of him for seeing this through. Now, if we can just get him through this last semester coming up....!!

House building is a wee bit closer

We met with the builder this afternoon to run past him the four houseplans we couldn't choose from. Thought maybe he could look and tell us which of the four would work better and be cheaper to build than the other three. And, basically we totally eliminated two of them. And, actually, probably the third one, too...as, it would take an architect to create a new facade, since none of us like the current one. So, I'm thinking I'll go ahead and order the plans for this one, and then get him back over here to sit down and crunch more numbers. This is so completely NOT the direction my brain works...my brain wants to just tell the guy...I want it, fix it for this amount, don't give me any problems or hassles and we'll all be happy campers! SIGH...sure isn't reality, is it?

Sat Nov 10th

Hey there,
I have a large list of to-do's to work my way through today, but am sitting here playing online first. Which reminds me...my 2nd cup of coffee is in the other room...brb...OK, I'm back....

I'm feeling a bit stronger today, the strange twinges have been still there, but lessening, I think. I do have more energy, which I should have as I've been sitting all morning! What I'm trying to decide now is whether to make a printed list or try to remember things as I go along through the day. Knowing me...better go with the list!

So...after I do that, I'll have to get myself dressed(now I understand why my Aunts always lounged all day!) and make sure I have shoes on for protection and balance, and get started. I'm thinking I'll work under crisis mode first(15min on/go to next for 15/back again)and then switch to regular 15min timings. And, I think I'll start with the yuckiest chores first.

OH....and, also want to schedule in glasses of water...small ones as I hate water...but, none the less--water instead of pop. I've not been staying hydrated and I do know better.

My dear husband is out, once again, shopping, before he can proceed with the actual building of the deck's steps. I don't understand why he insists upon not getting what he needs at one time and just go ahead and build the stupid things...it's just been all summer and half of fall...might have them finished by 2009? But, I'm not having to do it, so I guess I should just shut my mouth and be grateful he can do it.

Oh...and, on another note....received the holiday card address list from my flychat group...it's time for Christmas card sending...wonder where I put those cards when I cleaned up this spring???? Not a doubt it was somewhere easy to find as I was frustrated last year with hunting for them!!